Men, Campfires, and Storytelling
I have been running small to medium sized men’s groups for more than 35 years. Each of these meetings, whether inside a home, office space or a local coffee shop,
are just some of the ways, we as men, have gathered. My personal favourite though, has always been hanging out by a campfire with some old and new friends, enjoying
nature and relaxing into good conversation.
Whilst women will generally share their stories face to face with one another, (sometimes talking AND listening at the same time), men on the other hand, will only
share their stories with each other, given the right circumstances. Many blokes still struggle with that notion that it’s best to shut up and keep your feelings inside.
They will bury themselves in work or find a way to distract themselves so that they don’t have to connect and ask for emotional support from one another. You would
think that after all the information that’s available these days that men would talk more. However, the good news is, that men WILL talk when the conditions are right.
When men go fishing or hunting, play sport, or go bike riding, for example, walking the journey with one another, that Aussie mateship, or sense of belonging and respect begins to develop. Similarly, by sharing a campfire either at home, out in the bush or on the beach, men will take up their positions side by side and often begin to share.
Our early ancestors did it this way and it has lost none of its effectiveness for today’s men. It is here, in these open spaces of freedom and high intensity activity that I have witnessed
powerful, life changing transformations.
A chance to connect
The opportunity to become a better father, son, husband or friend, and to connect with one’s inner-self is something all men can do. Sometimes it’s just a matter of
finding your tribe or a safe place where you can be yourself. It is in this spirit I have created ‘Just Blokes’. Over the course of six days, guests will join myself and top
guides Jayd Wieland (White Water Guide & Rescue Specialist) and Tim Cope (National Geographic Adventurer of the Year) as we venture into the Victorian Alpine
Wilderness. Combining high-intensity activity with relaxing evenings around the campfire is a sure-fire way to elicit the best situation for story sharing amongst men.
Plus, what could be more exhilarating than 6 days white water rafting and hiking in the Victorian Snowys?
Don’t miss this fantastic opportunity to go off-track into the wilderness and pit yourself against the mighty Snowy River. For more details visit:
www.murrayparr.com.au or phone Murray on 0414 399 658.
